Kris spent much of their life thinking they simply weren’t very good at being a woman. It wasn’t until the pandemic, when they discovered the language of non-binary and agender identities and found others with similar experiences, that they realized they didn’t have to fit either side of the gender binary. In this episode, Kris talks about discovering their identity, navigating they/them pronouns, family and work, medical care, and the everyday experience of being seen as something they’re not.